Jeffery James Hettwer

Could we go back there baby? We went on the greatest trips together!!

I spread some of your ashes on the beach in Florida. I was walking along the sand thinking about how I really wished I would find a sand dollar for my Mom. As soon as the thought came into my head a wave crashed over and dropped a perfect sand dollar right on my foot. Then I walked down the beach and sat down by myself to think. Just then a little boat came up and anchored about 30 yards off shore. Other than the water there was complete silence. The people jumped into the water for a quick swim and all of a sudden "Better Together" by Jack Johnson came on. Our song baby! As it played I wandered out into the surf to get closer to the sound and when the song was done the music ended, complete silence again, and the people got back in their boat and drove away.

It felt like a dream... You felt like a dream. I'll always love you baby!!!

The night the guys went fishing and you stayed back to "tee hee" with us was HILARIOUS!!! Come on, what other guy would stop on his way to pick up a bunch of women from the bar and buy the game Twister just to get a laugh? You must have said "Is this a dream sequence?" a hundred times since then. This picture just about says is all... Help Me!!

How many times can I say how funny you were? And how much I miss you? And how sad I am that I'll never get to see you again? I love you so much baby!!!

There are so many great memories, one of my favorite was when we were playing cards before going on a trip to Cancun. I put a little box on the middle of the table and said whoever goes out first has to wear whatever's in this box on the beach, and nothing more! Jeff won that honor and was horrified to pull out the little black Speedo. It took him three days to get up the courage to put it on and strut down to the beach. By then he had quite the tan line going making the whole thing even funnier. I love you baby! You were such a good sport; I can still hear you laughing now.